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STEP 2: IDENTIFY YOUR PERSONAL REQUIREMENTS 57

MY TOP FOUR NEEDS

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Congratulations! You have completed the first stage in get-
ting your needs met: knowing what they are! Now let’s get started
working on them. At this point, you can refer to my website at
Lifecoach.com or to my book The Secret Laws of Attraction for
a more detailed treatment on the topic of personal requirements
and needs. Once you fulfill your personal requirements, you’ll find
that they will “disappear” and you’ll be immediately more attrac-
tive to current and potential employers. (There is nothing quite so
repellent as an unmet need or personal requirement, after all!)

The Importance of Establishing

Boundaries to Help You Achieve

Your Personal Requirements

Now that you are fully aware of your top four personal require-
ments, your mission is to figure out how to satisfy them once and
for all so that they effectively disappear. There are two aspects to
this program, and while they are simple in principle, not everyone
is prepared to execute them right off the bat. Trust me, though:
you can do this.
First, you will expand your current boundaries, putting in
place even bigger boundaries than you think you need. This will
give you a greater sense of confidence and provide the added ben-
efit of making you much more attractive to potential and current
employers. We are naturally attracted to people with firm and
clear boundaries, and we can’t help but treat them with respect.