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        cultures, they were seen as equally important or unimportant by brides and
        grooms alike. 20
            In 1993 a Japanese market research agency, Wacoal, asked young
        working women in eight Asian capital cities for their preferred charac-
        teristics of husbands and of steady boyfriends. In the masculine cultures,
        husbands should be healthy, wealthy, and understanding, while boyfriends
        should exhibit personality, affection, intel ligence, and a sense of humor.
        In the more feminine cultures, there was hardly any difference between
        the preferred characteristics of husbands and of boyfriends. If we see the
        boyfriend as the symbol of love and the husband as the symbol of family
        life, this means that in the masculine countries, love and family life were
        more often seen as separate, whereas in the feminine countries, they were
        expected to coincide. In the feminine countries, the husband was the boy-
        friend. A unique aspect of this analysis was that the comparison with the
        IBM data was made exclusively across Asian countries, showing that the
        masculinity-femininity dimension could also be validated without includ-
        ing European countries. 21
            U.S. anthropologist Margaret Mead once observed that in the United
        States boys become less attractive sex partners by career failure, girls by
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        career success.  In Japan a woman’s marriage chances diminish if she has
        a career of her own.
            Table 5.2 summarizes the key issues described so far on which mascu-
        line and feminine societies tend to differ.


        Masculinity and Femininity in
        Gender Roles and Sex

        The Wacoal survey also asked young working women in eight Asian cities

        whether they thought certain characteristics applied to men, to women, or
        to both. Answers differed between masculine and feminine countries. In
        the more masculine countries, sense of responsibility, decisiveness, liveli-
        ness, and ambitiousness were considered characteristics for men only, while
        caring and gentleness were seen as for women only. In the more feminine
        cultures, all these terms were considered as applying to both genders. 23
            Whereas gender roles in the family strongly affect the values about
        appropriate behavior for boys and for girls, they do not have immediate
        implications for the distribution of gender roles in the wider society. As
        argued earlier in this chapter, men, being on average taller and stronger
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