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Talk in Various Speeds


               If  you  speak  at  one  speed  will  turn  whatever  you  say  into  a  monotonous
               drone.  Change  up  your  speed,  depending  on  how  important  what  you  are
               trying to communicate is at the time.

               If you are going over the background or summarizing you can talk faster than
               if you are giving new information. If you are introducing or describing a new
               concept, slow down to give your audience time to absorb it.


                             Pause to Emphasize


               Silence isn’t only golden, but it is eloquence’s crowning glory. A small pause
               right before you say something important can create suspense. It will make
               your audience “hand on every word.”

               Pausing after you have stated something important will show how important
               it is and will give listeners time to reflect on its importance. The best example
               of perfect eloquence when pausing is Martin Luther King’s “I Have a Dream”

               speech.


                             Think Before You Talk

               The best trick for an eloquent speaker is to know what you are talking about.
               When you have a clear idea about what you would like to say will help you
               organize your thoughts into something coherent. It’s as simple as that.


                             Work on Weaknesses


               Take  some  time  to  find  out  what  your  weaknesses  are.  When  you  have
               identified them, make a plan to address them. A good strategy is to tackle one
               problem  every  day.  You  could  try  to  work  on  completing  sentences  on
               Wednesday and getting rid of filler words on Friday. Keep doing this every
               week until talking clear is just second nature to you.


                             Practice

               Writing and reading are probably your favorite things to do if you would like

               to be a great writer. If you want to be an eloquent writer or speaker, you have
               to practice a lot.

               This will involve practicing all the points that are mentioned above again and
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