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It is imperative that you can be concise and brief. If you can learn how to

               express yourself in just a few words, with some quotes and one-liners, you
               will grab people’s attention faster than somebody who keeps talking while
               trying to make their point.


                             Use a Script or Framework

               Being eloquent and witty will take spontaneity, but you can use a script to
               help  you.  Many  professional  speakers  and  writers  will  use  frameworks,

               scripts, and prompts to help them keep their thoughts in line. This doesn’t
               make  them  less  eloquent  or  witty.  It  helps  them  produce  a  great  delivery,
               which is their ultimate goal.

               You never get a second chance to be eloquent. You just get the one and you
               have to do it correctly.


                             Learn Some Puns

               I have always been bad with puns, but this is one thing that I would really
               like to get better at. To be able to master puns, you have to be able to use

               words that mean the same thing or sound alike.

               Think about a book publisher that is having some legal problems and they
               have asked you to create them a tagline. You could do something like: “At
               our company, our word is the law.” You have just brought together what they
               are going through with what they do. This is how puns work.


                             Silence is Powerful


               Some  times  when  people  speak,  you  can  actually  hear  music  because
               language is sound.

               If  you  have  listened  to  a  beautiful  violin  concerto  or  piano  sonata  and  the
               person  hits  a  bad  note  during  a  great  melody,  could  ruin  the  mood  of  the
               entire audience. This also goes for anyone who adds uhmm, or uhh after or
               before  their  sentences.  These  people  are  afraid  of  silence  entering  the
               conversation.

               People who know how to speak eloquently knows how powerful silence is. If

               they  are  forced  to  pause,  they  know  how  to  use  silence  as  an  advantage.
               Silence can create suspense. It could either be looked at as an opportunity to
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