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you  master  being  eloquent  and  witty.  Find  television  shows  that  have

               outstanding  one-liners  and  excellent  dialogue.  Look  for  shows  that  have
               inspiring  characters  that  you  can  learn  things  from.  Immersing  yourself  in
               witty and eloquent personalities will help you get more eloquent and witty
               and you will soon be a smooth talker, too.


                             Expanding Your Vocabulary

               According to research, a normal person knows about 35,000 words but only

               uses  around  3,000  of  them.  The  rest  of  the  words  just  turn  into  “passive
               vocabulary” that doesn’t get used much at all.

               A person who is eloquent won’t have any problems being able to get your
               point  across.  Learn  how  to  be  exceptional.  Use  online  resources  like
               dictionaries and thesauruses.

               You should learn a new word each day. Know the origins of the words and
               ways to use the word correctly. There isn’t anything worse than listening to
               someone spew out words and using them incorrectly. After you can become

               consistent doing this, you will surprise yourself at the results.


                             Memorize Some Quotes

               Be  that  person  who  is  always  bringing  up  great  quotes  or  saying  during  a
               group conversation. Just think about what it would be like having that perfect
               quote for each and every scenario and situation. This will make everybody
               want to listen to what you have to say. You will have to learn, memorize,
               digest, and be able to speak those quotes. This just might be the best part of

               learning eloquence and wit.


                             Be Concise and Brief

               There isn’t anything worse than sitting and listening to someone go on and on
               and on…

               People  who  can’t  stop  talking  are  the  worst.  You  might  have  a  hard  time
               being concise and brief, but sometimes nerves get in our way. You know how

               annoying it is when you are sitting across from someone who doesn’t listen to
               a  thing  you  say  because  they  can’t  stop  talking  long  enough  to  even
               acknowledge that you are in the room.
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