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sitting in front.

               If  you  aren’t  sure  about  your  volume,  as  someone  in  the  back  if  they  can

               clearly  hear  you.  If  they  tell  you  “yes,”  drop  your  voice  a  notch  and  ask
               again. If they can’t hear that, then go back to the previous volume.

               Never start yelling. Yelling will make you sound insane instead of eloquent.
               If you find yourself having to yell, you can ask the people to move closer to
               you or for a microphone.


                             Support Your Words with the Right Gestures


               Learn to use your hands to emphasize your important points. The best way to
               learn this is to watch the way popular speakers and celebrities use gestures
               while  speaking.  Notice  how  their  hand  movements  “emerge”  out  of  their
               hands.

               If  you  aren’t  actively  using  gestures,  don’t  move  your  hands.  Scratching,
               rattling papers, rearranging your glasses, etc. will distract your audience and
               will cancel your eloquence.


                             Position Your Body Correctly


               You can add power to your speech if you move your body the right way. If
               you are speaking from a stage, you can move from one place to another to
               show that you are beginning a new topic.

               If you are sting around a conference table, lean forward a bit when you would
               like to emphasize your point. Change your position when you move from one
               concept or subject to another one.


                             Use Words Everybody Can Understand


               Using clichés are just the opposite of being eloquent. Use common phrases or
               words  that  are  unexpected  that  will  illustrate  your  point  memorably.  You
               could use: “common as houseflies” instead of “a dime a dozen.”

               Stay away from words that people in your audience may not understand. If
               you use snobby words, it might make you sound snobby instead of smart. If

               you have to speak a term that the audience doesn’t understand, explain it in
               plain language.
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