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Chapter 16:




                                           Metaprograms





                       D           o you want to know the key to every human’s mind?

                                   Metaprograms refer to the different ways of filtering

                                   incoming
                                                                    by
                                                                           different
                                                                                          people.
                                                  information
                       Knowledge about specific mental filters they use gives you the
                       opportunity  to  communicate  much  more  effectively  with
                       others  and  also  enables  you  to  strengthen  the  influence  you

                       have on them.


                         As you already know from the first chapters of this book,

                       everyone makes decisions, finds solutions, processes what you
                       say  or  motivates  themselves  differently.  The  ability  to  see

                       these  differences  and  to  recognize  different  metaprograms

                       allows  you  to  adjust  your  message  so  that  you  can  always

                       reach the intended goal of your interaction.


                         The human mind processes a HUGE amount of information
                       every  single  moment  of  our  lives.  To  be  able  to  function

                       normally in this world,  it must filter all the information and

                       signals it receives by ignoring some of them and letting others

                       in.  Metaprograms  are  these  filters  of  perception,  which

                       decide  how  we  develop  specific,  individual  thinking
                       patterns  in  our  brains.  They  are  a  little  bit  like  club

                       bouncers, defining which information will be let in and which

                       won’t be allowed to enter.


                         Neuro-Linguistic  Programming  (NLP)  assumes  that  every

                       person has their own unique set of metaprograms. They filter
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