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General/Detailed


                         People  with  “general”  metaprograms  prefer  to  look  at

                       the  whole  problem  or  issue  in  general  from  a  bigger

                       perspective. They feel good when they can fully embrace the
                       concept. People oriented on the details, however, prefer to

                       look at  the  specific elements of  the  whole. They focus  the

                       greatest  attention  on  details,  on  the  specific  elements  of

                       problems and concepts.


                         The  former  are  usually  great  at  planning.  Their  ability  to

                       grasp all issues allows them to prepare a plan and a strategy
                       for  better  action.  People  with  a  “detailed”  metaprogram  feel

                       more comfortable with tasks that have a sequence of required

                       individual  steps.  They  look  at  each  single  task  individually,

                       focusing only on one step at a time.

                          Again, this metaprogram can easily be learned by observing

                       peoples’  expressions.  Listen  carefully  any  time  they  are

                       presenting an issue, problem or idea. Note if they are talking

                       about  the  details  and  specific  elements  of  this  issue  or  are

                       rather focused on general transmission of the concept.


                         How  can  you  use  this  knowledge?  Let’s  suppose  that  you
                       are  a  bicycle  retailer.  If  your  customer  is  focused  on  the

                       general  perspective,  you  could  encourage  them  by  speaking

                       about the general merits of this bike (it will allow them to take

                       long and enjoyable trips, they will feel great riding this bike,

                       that  it’s  comfortable  and  robust,  etc.).  To  a  person  with
                       “detailed” metaprogram you could say that this bike has great

                       brakes, handlebars and a frame made from the best materials,

                       essentially only the concrete stuff.


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