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Chapter 17:




                                              Meta Model





                       M              eta Model is a pillar of the linguistic part of NLP.

                                      Mastery of this concept will not only help you to

                                      improve  your  communication  with  others,  but

                       also enable you to cope with your own beliefs.

                         Let me begin by telling you more about the concept of Meta

                       Model  and  the  assumptions  built  on  its  foundations  so  you

                       become familiar with the most important language structures

                       and questions, which can be used to undermine limiting beliefs

                       —both yours and the people with whom you communicate.

                         Meta  Model  is  the  work  of  Richard  Bandler  and  John

                       Grinder.  For  a  few  years  they  observed  and  analyzed  the

                       actions  of  the  best  psychotherapists  they  knew.  Based  upon

                       Fritz Persl’s, Virginia Satir’s and Milton Erickson’s work,

                       they created the linguistic therapeutic model, which allows for
                       effective problem solving during therapy. You can find a very

                       exact  description  of  the  Meta  Model  in  Richard  Bandler’s

                       book The Structure of Magic, which was also his PhD thesis

                       work. It’s a great read.


                         To understand what the Meta Model is, it is worth the time
                       to familiarize yourself with the concepts of deep structure and

                       surface  structure,  which  describe  the  formation  of  mental

                       representations in an easier way.


                         Using our senses, we receive “raw material” from the world

                       around us—what we see, hear, feel, taste and smell. All of this
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