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“All entrepreneurs struggle with financial liquidity.”



                         Absolutely everyone? Do you know all of the entrepreneurs
                       in our country and in the world?



                                  Modal Operators – “I must,” “I should,” “I can’t.”

                                   “I can’t let it happen.”



                         What stands in the way? What or who is holding you back?

                       What exactly will happen if you do it?


                                  Presumptions – Hidden assumptions.


                                   “Before you judge me, first think about what kind of
                                   man you are yourself.”


                         Where did the assumption that I will be judging you come

                       from?


                         For me, the Meta Model has always been one of the most

                       important  parts  of  the  entire  NLP  and  the  art  of  effective

                       communication. I learned it to such an extent that it became a

                       section  of  my  unconscious  mind,  and  so  I  use  it  naturally,
                       spontaneously when I need it as a part of my competence. At a

                       certain  stage,  good  questions  come  intuitively.  It  is  a  very

                       useful tool during coaching sessions.


                         Meta Model is one of the main topics within the framework
                       of the majority of NLP trainings. For me, it’s one of the most

                       crucial ones.


                         It  is  important  to  use  Meta  Model  subtly  and  with

                       moderation.  The  continuous  asking  of  (even  correct)

                       questions  may  be  uncomfortable  for  your  conversation

                       partners, because not everyone is willing to expose or admit
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