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Chapter 5:




                                                     Smile





                       W               hy do we like to laugh so much? What happens

                                       in the brain when  you  smile? 1. Your  smile is

                                       controlled  by  two  groups  of  muscles—the

                       major zygomatic muscles and orbicularis oculi. These first run
                       on the sides of the face, connecting with the corners of your

                       mouth.  When  you  smile,  they  reveal  the  teeth  and  raise  the

                       corners of  your  mouth. Orbicularis oculi are responsible for

                       closing the eyelids. They are also responsible for the wrinkles

                       in the corners of your eyes.

                         The movement of zygomatic muscles can be controlled by

                       us. We do this when we want to smile artificially. Orbicularis

                       oculi work  independently of  our  will and appear only when

                       we laugh honestly. So if you want to know if someone laughs

                       for real or artificially—look at the sides of their eyes. During

                       artificial laughter, only their mouth laughs.

                         2.  A  smile  is  contagious.  Scientists  have  discovered  the

                       “mirror  neurons”  in  our  brains  which  are  responsible  for

                       recognizing the emotions on other people’s faces. After such a

                       recognition, they turn on the areas of our brain responsible for
                       the same emotions (sometimes it’s enough to look at a photo

                       of a smiling baby or watch a short clip with someone laughing

                       in it). When we see a smile on another person’s face, we can

                       also start to smile very easily—we automatically feel joy, so

                       smiling  affects  the  behaviors  of  other  people  and  their
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