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                  may require you to apply different values, rules, or procedures.
                  Some decisions involve resolving conflicts. Others contain oppor-
                  tunities, but also risks and uncertainties. The options you face can
                  include tough choices. You may have unwanted trade-offs and
                  lesser-of-evils choices. You may experience conflict between giving
                  up a great opportunity that’s out of reach and choosing one that is
                  attainable, but of lesser value. An ideology or bias can influence
                  the direction of the decision unfavorably. Knowing yourself, then,
                  is important in decision making.
                      How do you improve the quality and timeliness of your deci-
                  sions when procrastination interferes? In this two-stage process,
                  you learn to get out of a decision-making procrastination holding
                  pattern and act to make and execute purposeful and productive
                  decisions.
                      To advance this two-stage process, I organized this chapter
                  into three parts. The first describes factors that are involved in
                  indecision. The second is about ending decision-making procras-
                  tination. The third discusses how to make and carry out productive
                  decisions.


                  Procrastination, Uncertainty, and Indecision


                  The Latin word decido is the root of decision. It has two meanings:
                  to decide, and also to fall off. To avoid a fall, you may decide not to
                  decide. However, if you’ve adopted the no-failure plan from earlier
                  in this book, and you emphasize discovery over blame avoidance,
                  “falling” like an autumn leave is not an option.
                      In this section, let’s look at uncertainty as a condition for in-
                  decisiveness. It discusses four ways to overcome decision-making
                  procrastination, avoid needless pain from sitting on a spiked fence,
                  and act to secure useful gains.
                      In ambiguous situations you don’t see the full picture. You are
                  aware that you face unknowns. You have no guarantee of success
                  regardless of what you do. When you feel unsure and doubtful,
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