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                      Act Decisively








                           conscious decision to act decisively is the first step in initiat-
                      A  ing behavioral follow-through. Once you’ve become aware
                      of triggers that cause habitual procrastination, you’ve emotionally
                      coped with the unpleasant task, you’ve made an active decision to
                      get the task done, and you actively follow through, then you’ve
                      stopped your procrastination cycle. Overcoming indecision is a
                      key part of this positive change process, and you’ll learn how to
                      get off the fence and follow through with what is important for
                      you to do.
                          The fourth-century Chinese general Sun Tzu stated that if you
                      know your enemy and yourself, there is no need to fear the results
                      of 100 battles. Sun Tzu’s statement refers to decision making as
                      well as to war. If you know why you put off major decisions, know
                      how to make reasoned ones that work for you, and then persist in
                      following through, you’ve ended procrastination. That won’t hap-
                      pen 100 percent of the time, any more than winning all battles is
                      a realistic option. However, you can load the dice in your favor, and
                      you can learn to do that here.
                          Decision making is an ongoing part of being human. What
                      makes for a good decision? How do you get to that point? Unfor-
                      tunately, there are no guaranteed guidelines on how to make deci-
                      sions. Decision-making situations vary widely. Different situations
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