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                    1.   Recognize powerless anxiety thinking, such as “I can’t
                       cope,” and then look for exceptions to challenge this self-
                       imposed verbal rumination.
                    2.   Complete a public speaking course at a local college.
                    3.   Research a project suitable for presenting before a commu-
                       nity group.
                    4.   Practice the presentation before a video camera to pick up
                       and change any mannerisms that might distract from the
                       presentation.
                    5.   Present before a community group.


                      You can measure and achieve each of these objectives. For
                  example, if you participate in a public speaking course, you have
                  achieved that objective. Now, what can you do if procrastination
                  gets in the way?


                  One Goal at a Time. You’ll normally get better traction against
                  procrastination if you pick one area where you procrastinate that
                  is personally important to you and focus your efforts in that area.
                  I’ve taken this approach effectively with people whom I’ve worked
                  with who had hard-core procrastination habits. I used the same
                  one task one step at a time approach with my graduate group coun-
                  seling students.
                      Like the hard-core procrastination group, the counseling stu-
                  dents took on an important self-development project they put off
                  doing where each could make progress or complete before the end
                  of the semester. Each had a buddy to report to and weekly progress
                  reports that they submitted to me.
                      The following target areas show the diversity of challenges
                  described by the hard-core and group counseling folks: completing
                  performance reviews, finding a great new job, overcoming a fear
                  of public speaking, getting better organized, completing assign-
                  ments before a deadline, kicking a drinking habit, physical exer-
                  cise,  weight  loss,  saving  rather  than  shopping,  completing  a
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