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                  couch to free-associate about early childhood issues about procras-
                  tination can be a diversion. Table 1.1 describes a sample of procras-
                  tination styles and corrective actions.
                      Procrastination styles may surface in different contexts and
                  have some unique twists. However, the underlying procrastination
                  processes are roughly comparable. Thus, when you understand
                  this underlying process, you can use this knowledge to address
                  procrastination across a variety of contexts and styles.


                  Self-Absorbed versus
                  Self-Observant Perspectives


                  Acknowledging a procrastination habit is a critical step on the path
                  to change. Having some preexisting knowledge of what lies on the
                  path is better yet. You’ll know where to look and what to target.
                  Even if you don’t have an interest in tackling procrastination now,
                  understanding how the process works may later lead you to ex-
                  periment with counter-procrastination ideas and techniques.
                      Moving from a procrastination path to a productive one often
                  starts with a shift from feeling absorbed in procrastination process
                  thinking, feeling, and behaving to a self-observant problem-solving
                  perspective. When you are self-absorbed, you draw inward. You’re
                  concerned about how you feel, how you might look to others, or
                  whether you are perfect enough. When you are absorbed in such
                  anxious thoughts and feelings, you may find it hard to keep your
                  productive goals in focus. Procrastination thoughts may linger as
                  you languish. This inward view finds outward expression in pro-
                  crastination.
                      A self-observant way of knowing and doing involves a radical
                  shift from an inward to a reality perspective that is elegant in its
                  simplicity:


                    1.   Monitor your thoughts, feelings, and actions and do a
                       perception check.
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