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18   End Procrastination Now!

                      By nailing down what goes on when you procrastinate, you put
                  yourself in the catbird seat to understand the process and disrupt
                  it with a do-it-now alternative action. However, personal change is
                  ordinarily a process, not an event. It takes experimenting and time
                  to test and integrate new self-observant ways of thinking, feeling,
                  and doing. The new habits will compete with a practiced self-
                  absorbent procrastination style that may carry on as though it had
                  a life of its own. However, once you are into a process of change,
                  you may find building on the process easier and simpler.


                  From Procrastination to Productivity:
                  The Five Phases of Change


                  The five phases of the change process are awareness, action, ac-
                  commodation, acceptance, and actualization. I first used this struc-
                  ture for change in my early seminars and group counseling sessions
                  with people who wanted to stop procrastinating. The process as-
                  sumes a self-observant perspective. It is a way to organize a coun-
                  ter-procrastination program into a powerful process.
                      In this dynamic system for change, the different phases inter-
                  act. The priority ordering may change. Action may lead to insight-
                  ful awareness. Accommodation includes seeing incongruities and
                  contradictions and adjusting to reality. Acceptance may make it
                  easier to experiment with new ideas and behaviors. In actualiza-
                  tion, you stretch to discover your boundaries, and you may find
                  that you broaden those boundaries the more you stretch. This
                  knowledge adds to a growing awareness of what you can accom-
                  plish through your self-regulated efforts. The following describes
                  how the process works.

                  Phase 1: Awareness

                  Awareness is listed as the first phase of change. You intentionally
                  work to sharpen your conscious perspective on what is taking place
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