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                                          table 2.2 (continued)
                       Questions      Straight Answers       Do-It-Now Strategy

                         3.    Support     3.    Delays that continue     3.    I am likely to get
                           positive      to affect other         favorable perfor-
                           actions?      people are likely to    mance reviews and
                                         put people off.         salary increases
                                                                 with timely work
                                                                 submissions.
                         4.    Allow for     4.    When I delay, I feel     4.    While I can’t com-
                           a broad        pressured, and         mand stress to stop,
                           range of       my emotions are        I can focus on what I
                           emotions?      significantly reduced   can control.
                                          to stressful.
                         5.    Promote     5.    Dodging discomfort     5.    Corrective actions
                           healthy       and making tomor-       involve breaking the
                           lifestyle     row promises is         activity down into
                           habits?       nonproductive.          what I do first,
                                                                 second, and so forth.
                                                                 (See Chapter 6 for
                                                                 behavioral actions
                                                                 that support a do-it-
                                                                 now philosophy.)
                         6.    Lead to     6.    Later thinking leads     6.    I can choose to cor-
                           openness       to entrapment in a     rect this thinking. I
                           to experi-     rut where I spin       can look at its results
                           ence and       my wheels and get      and control what I
                           flexibility?   nowhere fast.          do to produce a dif-
                                                                 ferent outcome.





                          Through following the above approach, Jane established con-
                      trol over a negative procrastination process, and such control is
                      positive. She also took action through proactive coping, which you
                      learn more about in Chapter 4. She engaged in proactive coping
                      when she prepared for the next report by working out her prob-
                      lems and planning action before the time to start. Proactive coping
                      is designed to promote effectiveness and well-being. These results
                      represent the new effects she gained through this exercise.
                          Now, it is your turn to use the ABCDE system (see Table 2.3).
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