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             The point often missed? Without explicit behavioral standards, leaders
           have no foundation for holding people accountable. They are left with a
           fragmented approach to leadership behavior that results in inconsistent
           standards.
             Let’s reinforce what should now be set in stone: Fearless leaders are not
           perfect. But they are committed to following an explicit rule set that gives
           them the ability to work effectively together to generate opportunities and
           the resilience to overcome challenges.


           Unspoken Truces: Covering Up for Each Other
           In addition to our list of blind spots, there is another automatic behavior
           that prevents people from holding each other accountable: engaging in
           unspoken truces and covering up for each other.
             “I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine” is an example of a pact or
           truce. It implies that the parties are covering up and protecting each other
           from blame or harm. Although truces are not formally declared, they exist
           just the same. They are an underhanded deal in which people go to bat
           for one another and conceal the real issue. For example, “I’ll ignore your
           blind spots if you ignore mine. I will not hold you accountable for your
           behavior if you do the same for me. I’ll pretend that everything is copacetic
           if others challenge our performance.”
             Truces commonly exist between leaders as a hands-off agreement to
           avoid interfering in each other’s areas. In an unspoken contract, leaders
           agree not to talk about anything that makes each other uneasy. They do
           not interfere with each other’s areas even when someone is in trouble.
           Sadly, these unspoken agreements hurt the organization and are seldom
           confronted.

           Eliminating Reasons and Holding People Accountable
           for Results

           “Why aren’t you accessible to your people? They tell me you’re never
           around when you’re needed,” asked the irritated executive of his direct report
           who had relocated her family to Indonesia 18 months prior. “I’ve had a lot
           of things to deal with,” responded the direct report. “But why are you not
           managing your time more effectively?” asked the executive. “Well, I’m still
           learning about the business, and as you know, we’re struggling with the eco-
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