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                 on the other  side of  a desk or table. Alternatively, you  may be
                invited to sit on a sofa. Whatever the case, don’t look like you are
                in a hurry by talcing a seat before you are invited to sit. Chances are
                you will be seated within six feet of the interviewer  - a comfortable
                 conversational distance for maintaining good eye contact.


            27.  Keep your hands, arms, and elbows to yourself.

                 If you are sitting at a desk, keep your hands, arms, and elbows off
                the desk and away from any distracting items such as pencils or
                pens. Try to look alert, energetic, and focused on the interviewer
                rather  than  fidget with  items that indicate your  nervousness or
                irritating habits. If you don’t laow what to do with your hands, try
                folding or steepling them.

            28.  Sit erect and lean slightly forward.


                Avoid leaning back in your chair or on the sofa loolcing extremely
                comfortable and relaxed. Such posture may communicate that you
                are more interested in tallcing about yourself than in listening to
                and learning from the interviewer. The best sitting posture is to sit
                erect and lean slightly forward toward the interviewer folding or
                steepling your hands. This is good listening posture. Nonverbally
                it communicates that you are interested in the individual. You will
                look more alert and energetic in this posture than in other postures.

            29.  Keep your feet on the floor.


                 If you are sitting on a sofa where your full body is in view, avoid
                crossing your legs and showing the soles of your shoes. Keep both
                feet on the floor. Crossed legs still indicate a degree of informality
                and familiarity that is unwarranted at this point in your relation-
                ship with the interviewer.

            30.  Let the interviewer initiate the openers but take initia-
                tive in offering some of your own openers.

                 It is the responsibility of the interviewer to initiate openers. During
                 the first two or three minutes the interviewer will probably talk
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