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                                     Possible Stage 4: This is awful! I am terribly late. I am sure
                                 everyone is angry with me. How can I ever make it up to them? I
                                 will put myself at their mercy and beg their forgiveness.
                                     In the United States we are at stage 1 from 0 to about 5 min-
                                 utes, stage 2 from 5 to 10 minutes, and stage 3 from 10 to 15
                                 minutes. After 15 minutes, there is an optional switch to stage 4
                                 depending on the circumstances. In Germany, stage 1 is shorter,
                                 perhaps only until 2 minutes after the appointed time. Then all
                                 the stages get moved up accordingly. In Latin America and Arab
                                 countries, however, stage 1 may last as long as 20 minutes and
                                 stage 2 may last 45 minutes. Obviously, this is fertile ground for
                                 intercultural conflict.
                                     Americans seem to be particularly obsessed with time, view-
                                 ing it as a commodity. We see it as something precious that we
                                 can save, waste, buy, spend, find, lose, make, pass, take, spare,
                                 run out of, and kill. Not every culture shares this perspective.

                                 Deaf and Hearing Differences Related to Time
                                 Many subcultures in the United States refer to their own variant of
                                 the accepted time system half-jokingly as Black Standard Time or
                                 Jewish Standard Time, and so on. But they are only half-joking,
                                 because there really are differences in behavior and attitude to-
                                 ward time in different cultures. This category would include DST,
                                 or Deaf Standard Time, as well. Perhaps all of these “standard
                                 time” references are only glorified excuses for being late. Or, to
                                 their credit, some subcultures may recognize that in their group
                                 punctuality is not always next to godliness.
                                     Besides arriving at events late, another element of Deaf time
                                 is staying late at gatherings such as parties. In Deaf-only parties,
                                 this behavior goes unremarked upon because it is expected. In a
                                 mixed party of Deaf and hearing, people often joke that the party
                                 really gets started after all the hearing people go home (early). If
                                 there is an event at a public location such as a theater, it often
                                 happens that the Deaf people in attendance must be shooed out
                                 at closing time, and they sometimes continue the conversation
                                 on the front steps outside the theater. At a restaurant, a group of
                                 Deaf patrons may be deep in conversation as the restaurant staff
                                 stacks the chairs upside down on the tables and turns off the lights.
                                 If Deaf people are involved in a discussion, cutting it off arbitrarily
                                 because the clock says it’s getting late is almost unheard-of. These
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