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he'd start back up again. I couldn't believe it"
"Almost all the benefit of the exercise comes at the very end, Stephen," he replied. "I'm trying to
build strength. And that doesn't happen until the muscle fiber ruptures and the nerve fiber registers
the pain. Then nature overcompensates and within 48 hours, the fiber is made stronger."
I could see his point. It's the same principle that works with emotional muscles as well, such as
patience. When you exercise your patience beyond your past limits, the emotional fiber is broken,
nature overcompensates, and next time the fiber is stronger.
Now my friend wanted to build muscular strength. And he knew how to do it. But not all of us
need to develop that kind of strength to be effective. "No pain, no gain" has validity in some
circumstances, but it is not the essence of an effective exercise program.
The essence of renewing the physical dimension is to sharpen the saw, to exercise our bodies on a
regular basis in a way that will preserve and enhance our capacity to work and adapt and enjoy.
And we need to be wise in developing an exercise program. There's a tendency, especially if you
haven't been exercising at all, to overdo. And that can create unnecessary pain, injury, and even
permanent damage. It's best to start slowly. Any exercise program should be in harmony with the
latest research findings, with your doctor's recommendations and with your own self-awareness.
If you haven't been exercising, your body will undoubtedly protest this change in its comfortable
downhill direction. You won't like it at first. You may even hate it. But be proactive. Do it
anyway. Even if it's raining on the morning you've scheduled to jog, do it anyway. "Oh good! It's
raining! I get to develop my willpower as well as my body!"
You're not dealing with quick fix; you're dealing with a Quadrant II activity that will bring
phenomenal long-term results. Ask anyone who has done it consistently. Little by little, your resting
pulse rate will go down as your heart and oxygen processing system becomes more efficient. As you
increase your body's ability to do more demanding things, you'll find your normal activities much more
comfortable and pleasant. You'll have more afternoon energy, and the fatigue you've felt that's made
you "too tired" to exercise in the past will be replaced by an energy that will invigorate everything you
do.
Probably the greatest benefit you will experience from exercising will be the development of your
Habit 1 muscles of proactivity. As you act based on the value of physical well-being instead of
reacting to all the forces that keep you from exercising, your paradigm of yourself, your self-esteem,
your self-confidence, and your integrity will be profoundly affected.

The Spiritual Dimension

Renewing the spiritual dimension provides leadership to your life. It's highly related to Habit 2.
The spiritual dimension is your core, your center, your commitment to your value system. It's a
very private area of life and a supremely important one. It draws upon the sources that inspire and
uplift you and tie you to the timeless truths of all humanity. And people do it very, very differently.
I find renewal in daily prayerful meditation on the scriptures because they represent my value
system. As I read and meditate, I feel renewed, strengthened, centered, and recommitted to serve.
Immersion in great literature or great music can provide a similar renewal of the spirit for some.
There are others who find it in the way they communicate with nature. Nature bequeaths its own
blessing on those who immerse themselves in it. When you're able to leave the noise and the discord
of the city and give yourself up to the harmony and rhythm of nature, you come back renewed. For a
time, you're undisturbable, almost unflappable, until gradually the noise and the discord from outside
start to invade that sense of inner peace.
Arthur Gordon shares a wonderful, intimate story of his own spiritual renewal in a little story called
"The Turn of the Tide." It tells of a time in his life when he began to feel that everything was stale and