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lecturing to his students after his release from the death camps. He would describe himself in the
classroom, in his mind's eye, and give his students the lessons he was learning during his very torture.
Through a series of such disciplines -- mental, emotional, and moral, principally using memory and
imagination -- he exercised his small, embryonic freedom until it grew larger and larger, until he had
more freedom than his Nazi captors. They had more liberty, more options to choose from in their
environment; but he had more freedom, more internal power to exercise his options. He became an
inspiration to those around him, even to some of the guards. He helped others find meaning in their
suffering and dignity in their prison existence.
In the midst of the most degrading circumstances imaginable, Frankl used the human endowment of
self-awareness to discover a fundamental principle about the nature of man: Between stimulus and
response, man has the freedom to choose.
Within the freedom to choose are those endowments that make us uniquely human. In addition to
self-awareness, we have imagination -- the ability to create in our minds beyond our present reality.
We have conscience -- a deep inner awareness of right and wrong, of the principles that govern our
behavior, and a sense of the degree to which our thoughts and actions are in harmony with them. And
we have independent will -- the ability to act based on our self-awareness, free of all other influences.
Even the most intelligent animals have none of these endowments. To use a computer metaphor,
they are programmed by instinct and/or training. They can be trained to be responsible, but they can't
take responsibility for that training; in other words, they can't direct it. They can't change the
programming. They're not even aware of it.
But because of our unique human endowments, we can write new programs for ourselves totally
apart from our instincts and training. This is why an animal's capacity is relatively limited and man's
is unlimited. But if we live like animals, out of our own instincts and conditioning and conditions, out
of our collective memory, we too will be limited.
The deterministic paradigm comes primarily from the study of animals -- rats, monkeys, pigeons,
dogs -- and neurotic and psychotic people. While this may meet certain criteria of some researchers
because it seems measurable and predictable, the history of mankind and our own self-awareness tell us
that this map doesn't describe the territory at all!
Our unique human endowments lift us above the animal world. The extent to which we exercise
and develop these endowments empowers us to fulfill our uniquely human potential. Between
stimulus and response is our greatest power -- the freedom to choose.

"Proactivity" Defined

In discovering the basic principle of the nature of man, Frankl described an accurate self-map from
which he began to develop the first and most basic habit of a highly effective person in any
environment, the habit of Proactivity.
While the word proactivity is now fairly common in management literature, it is a word you won't
find in most dictionaries. It means more than merely taking initiative. It means that as human beings,
we are responsible for our own lives. Our behavior is a function of our decisions, not our conditions.
We can subordinate feelings to values. We have the initiative and the responsibility to make things
happen.
Look at the word responsibility -- "response-ability" -- the ability to choose your response. Highly
proactive people recognize that responsibility. They do not blame circumstances, conditions, or
conditioning for their behavior. Their behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on
values, rather than a product of their conditions, based on feeling.
Because we are, by nature, proactive, if our lives are a function of conditioning and conditions, it is
because we have, by conscious decision or by default, chosen to empower those things to control us.