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THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE                                                      Brought to you by FlyHeart

       principles, on the self-evident truths contained in the Declaration of Independence.  These principles
       empower the Constitution with a timeless strength, even in the midst of social ambiguity and change.
       "Our peculiar security," said Thomas Jefferson, "is in the possession of a written Constitution."
             A personal mission statement based on correct principles becomes the same kind of standard for an
       individual.    It becomes a personal constitution, the basis for making major, life-directing decisions, the
       basis for making daily decisions in the midst of the circumstances and emotions that affect our lives.    It
       empowers individuals with the same timeless strength in the midst of change.
             People can't live with change if there's not a changeless core inside them.    The key to the ability to
       change is a changeless sense of who you are, what you are about and what you value.
             With a mission statement, we can flow with changes.    We don't need prejudgments or prejudices.
       We don't need to figure out everything else in  life, to stereotype and categorize everything and
       everybody in order to accommodate reality
             Our personal environment is also changing at an ever-increasing pace.    Such rapid change burns
       out a large number of people who feel they can hardly handle it, can hardly cope with life.    They
       become reactive and essentially give up, hoping that the things that happen to them will be good.
             But it doesn't have to be that way.    In  the Nazi death camps where Viktor Frankl learned the
       principle of proactivity, he also learned the importance of purpose, of meaning in life.    The essence of
       "logotherapy," the philosophy he later developed and taught, is that many so-called mental and
       emotional illnesses are really symptoms of an underlying sense of meaninglessness or emptiness.
       Logotherapy eliminates that emptiness by helping the individual to detect his unique meaning, his
       mission in life.
             Once you have that sense of mission, you have the essence of your own proactivity.    You have the
       vision and the values which direct your life.    You have the basic direction from which you set your
       long- and short-term goals.    You have the power of a written constitution based on correct principles,
       against which every decision concerning the most effective use of your time, your talents, and your
       energies can be effectively measured.

       At the Center

             In order to write a personal mission statement, we must begin at the very center of our Circle of
       Influence, that center comprised of our most basic Our paradigms, the lens through which we see the
       world.
             It is here that we deal with our vision and our values.    It is here that we use our endowment of
       self-awareness to examine our maps and, if we value correct principles, to make certain that our maps
       accurately describe the territory, that our paradigms are based on principles and reality.    It is here that
       we use our endowment of conscience as a compass to help us detect our own unique talents and areas
       of contribution.    It is here that we use our endowment of imagination to mentally create the end we
       desire, giving direction and purpose to our beginnings and providing the substance of a written
       personal constitution.
             It is also here that our focused efforts achieve the greatest results.    As we work within the very
       center of our Circle of Influence, we expand it.  This is highest-leverage PC work, significantly
       impacting the effectiveness of every aspect of our lives.
             Whatever is at the center of our life will be the source of our security, guidance, wisdom, and power.
             Security represents your sense of worth, your identity, your emotional anchorage, your self-esteem,
       your basic personal strength or lack of it.
             Guidance means your source of direction in life.    Encompassed by your map, your internal frame of
       reference that interprets for you what is happening out there, are standards or principles or implicit
       criteria that govern moment-by-moment decision-making and doing.
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