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Strive for Self-Mastery   89




        Enneagram Style Sevens


        Sevens crave the stimulation of new ideas, people,
        and experiences; avoid pain; and create elaborate
        future plans that will allow them to keep all of their
        options open.



        CHART 3.8  Sevens: Levels of Self-Mastery

                            Descriptions
        Extreme self-mastery  The Focused Inspirer
                            Core understanding: Genuine happiness and a feeling of
                            wholeness come from integrating negative and positive
                            experiences.
                            Enneagram Sevens who have chosen to do the difficult work
                            of self-development have learned how to tame their highly
                            active minds, which is not an easy task. In learning to do this,
                            Sevens increase their capacity to focus—on people, tasks,
                            feelings, and learning something in depth—rather than
                            disperse their energy. They complete their work effortlessly,
                            listen well, and emanate happiness and peaceful joy. Spirited
                            and deep, these Sevens have a true sense of wonder and
                            inspire those around them, not by energizing them, but by
                            their calm, yet vital presence.
                            Example: It took Brenda a long time to deal with the loss of
                            both of her parents when she was still quite young. However,
                            in dealing with this issue when she was in her thirties, through
                            a great deal of self-reflection and outside help, Brenda had
                            developed a capacity for compassion and had learned to stop
                            avoiding painful issues. Because of this, she was able to focus
                            and to be available to others for extended conversations about
                            important issues. At the same time, she retained her ability to
                            think outside the box, and her ability to do this had actually
                            increased, as had her ability to inspire others to take action.
        Moderate self-mastery  The Stimulator
                            Core concern: Satisfaction, stimulation, and feeling good.
                            At the mid-level of self-mastery, Sevens can be creative and
                            engaging, but also frenzied and impatient. Their minds work
                            so fast that they often have a great many half-thought-
                            through notions, most of which they express. They also tend
                            to overestimate their competence or knowledge, considering
                            themselves quick studies. Addicted to the adrenaline rush of
                            experiences that are new and stimulating, they sometimes
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