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                 always use a side or back door? If the latter is the case, this habit
                 may mirror how you are always being overlooked for promotions or
                 jobs. Try using your front door for a change. One of my clients did
                 this and discovered that he couldn’t open the front door from the
                 outside without grazing a knuckle—it had the wrong sort of knob.
                 No wonder “doors of opportunity” weren’t opening easily for him at
                 work. He changed his door handle and a few days later was invited
                 to host his own radio show—something he had always dreamed of
                 doing but didn’t know how to make happen.
              →  Make sure your front entrance reflects authority as well
                 as being welcoming and tidy. Remove any obstacles to the
                 entryway. Verify that the front door opens and closes easily without
                 obstruction and that it doesn’t stick. Check that the doorbell works
                 and there is plenty of light. If you have a double front door, take
                 care not to block one of the doors with a potted plant or statue, or
                 you’ll be blocking half your chi (good energy).
              →  Use symbols and figurines if you feel you need protection
                 from toxic colleagues or bosses. Add a pair of concrete figurines
                 of dogs or lions symbolically guarding the front door of your home,
                 and paint the door red (red is the color of protection). These feng
                 shui cures for the home can serve to protect you at work as well, as
                 it may be neither possible nor practical to deploy two concrete lions
                 to guard your cubicle entrance!
              →  Add a water element. Hang a mirror somewhere in the front
                 entryway. Mirrors represent water, and water is helpful for career
                 success. This is why you typically see an aquarium with fish when
                 you enter a Chinese restaurant. Glass, water, and the movement
                 of the fish all promote positive energy. A glass vase of water with
                 some flowers also works, or even silk flowers with plastic water as
                 representation of a water element.
              →  Be careful what pictures or paintings you hang at your home’s
                 entrance. The images you display should represent what you
                 want, not what you don’t want. I had a client who was married
                 and lived in a beautiful apartment in Amsterdam. Hanging to the
                 immediate left of their apartment door was a shocking Salvador
                 Dalí print depicting a tiger about to devour a naked woman. The
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