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        less concerned with grades than they expected. Passing was considered
        enough; excelling was not an openly pronounced goal. Gert Jan’s experi-
        ences with students from all over the world are similar. Students from
        masculine countries may ask to take an exam again after passing with a
        mediocre grade—Dutch students almost never do so. Such experiences in
        teaching at home and abroad and discussions with teachers from different
        countries have led us to conclude that in the more feminine cultures, the
        average student is considered the norm, while in more masculine countries,
        the best students are the norm. Parents in these masculine countries expect
        their children to try to match the best. The “best boy in class” in the Neth-
        erlands is a somewhat ridiculous fi gure. 31
            This difference is noticeable in classroom behavior. In masculine cultures,
        students try to make themselves visible in class and compete openly with
        each other (unless collectivist norms put a limit to this; see Chapter 4).
            In feminine countries, assertive behavior and attempts at excelling are
        easily ridiculed. Excellence is something one keeps to oneself; it easily leads
        to jealousy. Gert Jan remembers being told by a classmate when he was
        fourteen, “We know you are smart—but you don’t have to show it all the
        time.” When he moved to Lausanne, in Switzerland, the following year, he
        was admired, not rebuked, for being clever.
            In the feminine Scandinavian countries, people call their own attitude
        in this regard the Law of Jante (Janteloven). The Law of Jante, a nickname

        chosen for a small Danish town, was codified in the 1930s by the Danish-
        born Norwegian author Aksel Sandemose, and in an English translation it
        runs as follows:


            You should not believe that
            you are anything

            you are just as much as us
            you are wiser than us
            you are better than us
            you know more than we do
            you are more than we are
            or that you are good at anything
            You should not laugh at us

            You should not think
            that anybody likes you
            or that you can teach us anything. 32
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