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If you chart where you are in a cycle with another person
(acting or reacting), and then note how both of you are
behaving (nice, mean, or neither), you’ll find it instructive.
This quick little analysis also helps you decide how to
maneuver. Obviously, some moves will serve you far better
than others, and it may surprise you to discover which are
the most promising.
Just remember—life is a social affair. We live in a world of
human give-and-take. And whatever behaviors we decide to
give out toward others will heavily influence what we find
ourselves obliged to take in return.
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