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This shows that there is a lot of implications in communication, considering a

               single sentence was enough to affect brain responses. Good communication
               greatly  depends  on  the  listener  and  speaker  having  common  ground.  The
               problem with communication today is that most of us live a life where we are
               exposed to the same perspective each day. This doesn’t give us much room
               for  common  ground  amongst  people  who  are  different.  If  we  lose  our
               common ground completely, what would be able to do to ever communicate
               effectively?


               One way to do this is to start having real conversations with each other were
               actually listen to each other’s viewpoints. This gives us a chance to figure out
               a mutual understanding.


               Mental Health and Communication

               We are all humans, and as such, we all have our own problems. As much as
               we hate to think about it, our mental health plays into how we communicate.
               Stress  levels,  especially  within  families  and  job  relationships,  can  create
               communication problems. This, and other mental health disorders can cause a
               person to misread or withdraw in social situations.

               Whether you are the one struggling or a person you are talking to is, the most
               common signs are:


                             Misinterpreting  or  missing  simply  social  cues,  like  facial

                             expressions, which causes misunderstandings.

                             Make  unreasonable  demands,  or  they  show  a  lack  of  concern
                             because they are preoccupied with their own anxieties or fears.

                             Perceive  people  inaccurately,  which  can  cause  paranoia  or
                             anxiety.

                             Behave  unpredictably,  feel  irritable,  or  have  angry  outbursts
                             because of instability.


                             Withdraw or remain silent when feeling depressed.

               The only way around these problems, if you are the one suffering from them,
               is to seek help. Now, sometimes a little time to calm down or relax can help,
               especially if it has been a long and stressful day. But if you feel this way
               constantly,  then  seeking  assistance  from  a  professional  is  the  best  way  to
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