Page 18 - Effective communication Skills by Dale King

There are some people who appear to have some unique presence that can

naturally provide a person with a clear message so that they understand it
easily and are receptive to it.

Every living creature, on some level, is communicating through energy and
vibrations, and we, for the most part, don’t even notice it. Think about this:
when people are placed in amongst horses, the horses will respond to a
person’s energy. If they feel that the person is afraid of horses, they are likely
going to stay away from them.

These energies that we can read from others are influenced by emotions,

much like the last level. Whether you know it or not, there have probably
been things you have backed out of or declined to do something based on the
“vibe” you got from somebody. That’s why you want to make sure you aren’t
sending out “no” vibes when you want to communicate with a person.

In order to communicate well on this level, it is important that you hold high
intentions for your listener’s wellbeing. This is going to require a very good
level of mindfulness that is typically cultivated through the practice of

compassion. When you make sure that you are centered in a state of mastery,
it is more likely that you will be able to access this dimension that holds a lot
of insight into others, which will help you to communicate more easily.

All five levels have to be put together to be an effective communicator. The
verbal level is the things we say. The physical, energetic, auditory, and
emotional levels are how we convey our message.

They are all interdependent because each level affects the next. For example,

how we feel emotionally is going to affect our body language and the overall
field influences our emotions. Simply noticing these things can be helpful.

When we are able to spot the complexities within human communication, we
can become more patient in how we talk with others and, in turn, become
more compassionate towards ourselves and others.