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speech  when  speaking  to  somebody  who  is  introverted  and  thoughtful;

               otherwise, you run the risk of not being understood.

               The way that you inflect, place emphasis, and enunciate certain words will
               affect  the  way  in  which  a  person  interprets  what  you  are  saying.  Auditory
               communication  is  very  common  in  other  animals,  such  as  the  rattlesnake.
               When you hear the rattle of their tail, you know that you should probably
               move  away.  Birds  are  another  species  that  puts  a  lot  of  importance  on
               auditory communication.

               In  order  to  communicate  effectively  on  this  level,  make  sure  that  you  are

               aware of the different auditory cues. Try to talk to others in a way that is
               similar to how they talk.

               Level Four: Emotional Communication


               There are very few people who appreciate how effective our emotional state
               is when we communicated and how messages are interpreted by the listener.
               Aristotle’s pathos shows us an appeal to the audience’s emotions.

               Do  you  tend  to  be  more  receptive  to  a  person  who  is  life-affirming  and
               positive  or  a  person  who  is  more  critical?  Do  you  like  listening  to  boring
               people or enthusiastic people?

               The emotions of the speaker put the listener in a certain state of mind and
               influences how they interpret what has been said. If you make sure that you

               are emotionally aware, then you will be able to communicate more efficiently
               because you will be able to notice the emotions of your listeners. This gives
               you a chance to change the conversation if need be to help make them more
               receptive.

               In order to communicate well on this level, it is important that you become
               more aware of your emotional state, learn to pause, and get rid of negative
               emotions  before  you  try  to  connect  with  another  person.  Words  that  are

               delivered with fear, pride, or anger rarely end up being received well.

               Level Five: Energetic Communication


               Sometimes  referred  to  as  psychic  communication,  this  type  of
               communication  includes  a  large  range  of  unseen  factors,  which  includes
               consciousness,  harmonics  or  frequency  of  the  message,  and  other  types  of
               more subtle energy.
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