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                                The Orienter prevents the team from wandering too far from the topic
                            at hand; he or she brings them back and focuses them again when they do
                            stray. This redirecting should not be done abruptly as in, ‘Hey, we’re way off
                            here; let’s get back on track’, or ‘David, you just took us off the topic again’,
                            because you don’t want to introduce a negative effect into the relationship
                            side of the equation. A useful and neutral way to intervene is with the ques-
                            tion, ‘Are we off topic right now?’.
                                The Fact Seeker tests reality to make sure the decision the team is about
                            to make is doable. This team member always wants more information and
                            is quick to point out the difference between a fact and an opinion. The Fact
                            Seeker is also very helpful in pointing out when a team does not have all the
                            information it needs to make a good decision. The Fact Seeker will suggest
                            that the team get more data before proceeding. He or she is also good at
                            checking the decision-making boundaries of the team, asking, ‘Do we have
                            the authority to make this decision?’.
                                The Initiator gets the team started on the right foot by always begin-
                            ning discussions with the question, ‘How should we approach this task?’.
                            Getting agreement on a game plan before starting to work on the task itself
                            is crucial to team effectiveness and is the distinguishing characteristic of
                            the Initiator.
                                When  you  plan  the  Summarizer,  Orienter,  Fact  Seeker  and  Initiator
                            roles, you contribute to your team’s productivity by moving the task along
                            towards completion. Play the following relationship roles to ensure that the
                            team members feel valued and respected, and you will make a major contri-
                            bution to your team’s cohesiveness.
                                The Harmonizer realizes that conflict is inevitable and that if left unre-
                            solved, they are the biggest barrier to a team’s achieviement of health and
                            success. The Harmonizer calls the team’s attention to a conflict (especially
                            if team members have not wanted to acknowledge it), by saying some-
                            thing  like,  ‘Let’s  be  honest:  we’ve  got  some  strong  conflicting  feelings
                            about this issue. What steps can we take to resolve our differences?’. The
                            Harmonizer is also able to focus discussion on meeting-specific needs as
                            a way of mediating conflict. More help on mediation is given in some of
                            the sections which follow: When you reach an impasse, talk about needs
                            and Hey, no Problem.
                                The Analyser watches for changes in the vital signs of the team and brings
                            these changes to the attention of the team. The Analyser, as the team mem-
                            ber, is most likely to ask, ‘How is everyone feeling about how we’re working
                            together?’, or ‘It seems we’ve lost our energy; what is happening?’.
                                The Gatekeeper is concerned primarily with team communication and
                            participation. This member makes sure that all team members are actively
                            listening  to  each  other  and  understanding  each  other’s  messages.  The
                            Gatekeeper paraphrases message to make sure that everyone is on the same






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