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124                                    Names and Faces
               this  is not exactly  remembering  names and faces, since  she
               doesn't remember  the name,  but  it is  similar  enough. She
               must associate the hat or coat, or both, to the person's face.
                 I've been  told that  the bellboy  of  a  large  hotel down south
               has gained  a  similar reputation.  Whenever  someone  checks
               into  the hotel  that  has  been there  even once before, this
               bellboy  addresses  them  by name.  The  last I heard, he  is
               well  on  his  way to saving enough money out  of  his  tips
               to buy the hotel.
                 This should prove to  you,  if proof were necessary, that
               people  love  to be  remembered, they even pay  for it.  This
               particular  hat  check girl and bellboy surely made  more
               money than the others who worked at the same jobs.
                 A person's name is his  most prized possession, and there
               is nothing more  pleasing to him than  hearing  his  own  name
               or having it remembered by others.
                 Some of my students  and myself  have remembered  as
               many as  three hundred names and faces at one meeting;
               and you can do it too!
                 Before getting into  the  actual systems and methods  for
               remembering names and  faces, I'd  like to  show you  how
               you can improve your  memory for them by at least 25%
               to 50% without the systems! Read the next few paragraphs
               very carefully.
                 The main reason  that  most people forget a  name is
               because  they  never remembered  it  in the first place! I'll
               take that a step further, and say  that  they never even
               heard the  name in the  first place.  How often  have  you
               been  introduced to someone new,  something  like  this: "Mr.
               Reader, meet  Mr. Stra—ph—is"? All you hear  is  a mumbled
               sound  instead  of the  name. Possibly because the person
               who is  doing  the introducing doesn't remember  the  name
               himself. So,  he  resorts  to double-talk. You, on the  other
               hand, probably feel that you will never meet this person
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