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                                  they will not be received at all. Speech signals are probably the least
                                    permanent of all communicative media.
                               •   Arbitrariness: Language signals are arbitrary; they do not possess any
                                  of the physical properties or characteristics of the things for which
                                  they stand. Names are largely arbitrary: there is no real relationship
                                  between the name and the individual. And yet, names are not totally
                                  arbitrary; many names indicate the ethnic group to which an indi-
                                  vidual belongs and usually indicate sex.

                               •   Cultural transmission: The form of any particular human language is
                                  culturally or traditionally transmitted. One of the consequences of
                                  cultural transmission is that any human language can be learned by
                                  any normal human being. All human languages are learnable.

                            Language as Meaning System

                            If it were not for the desire of one person to communicate a meaning to another
                            person, language would probably not exist. Of all the functions of language,
                            the communication of one person’s meaning to another is surely the most sig-
                            nificant. Consequently, meaning must be placed at the centre of any attempt to
                            explain language. Although a variety of types of meanings may be identified,
                            two general types essential to identify in communication: denotation and con-
                            notation. The denotation of a word is its objective definition. The connotation
                            of a word is its subjective or emotional meaning. In order to explain these two
                            types of meanings, let us take an example of the word fail. To an examiner this
                            word might simply mean or denote that the student did not get 50 or more
                            than 50. It is an objective description of a particular event. On the other hand,
                            to the person who failed in the examination, the word means much more than
                            getting 50 or more than 50. He or she recalls his or her preparation, stress
                            involved in understanding the concepts, losing time, pain involved in prepar-
                            ing again for the exam, his or her classmates being promoted to another class,
                            he or she remaining in the same class, and so on. To him or her it is a highly
                            emotional word, or a highly subjective word. These emotional or subjective or
                            personal reactions are the word’s connotative meaning. Denotative meanings
                            are relatively unchanging and static. Although definitions of all words change
                            through time, denotative meanings generally change very slowly. But the con-
                            notative meaning changes rapidly from person to person.


                            Speaking and Writing
                            Educationists have witnessed that people tend to prefer oral communication
                            channels to written ones. In general, talking to somebody is quicker and
                            more convenient than writing a memo or a letter. Furthermore, when you are
                            speaking or listening, you can pick up added meanings from nonverbal cues






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