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                    Interaction                              Process Comments

                    Ted: You name it. I start filing old sales reports.
                    I call my wife to talk about the kids. I do some
                    joint sales calls. I check the stock market. I meet
                    with other department heads. I sometimes close
                    and lock my office door and nap. I fantasize
                    about buying a business and having others do
                    the performance reviews.

                    Bill: It sounds as if you’ve got that part of pro-
                    crastination pinned down.
                    Ted: Yes. I skimmed your book on procrastina-  Putting himself out of
                    tion before this meeting. The section on diver-  the way to gather in-
                    sions got my attention. I said to myself, My God,   formation and pre-
                    that is what I do. I think I know I’m procrastinat-  pare for his session
                    ing. It’s almost like I’m doing these things with-  suggests that Ted
                    out thinking about what I’m doing. It’s hard    feels motivated to
                    to explain. I know I’m sidetracking when I do   change. Or at least
                    these things, but I don’t seem to be able to    motivated to impress
                    stop myself.                             the therapist.
                    Bill: Is there anything that you are aware of    Check on intervening
                    before you sidetrack yourself?           variables, such as
                                                             what Ted is thinking,
                                                             that goes between his
                                                             awareness of the per-
                                                             formance review and
                                                             his task-avoidance
                                                             behaviors.
                    Ted: (Pause) My body tightens, and I feel really
                    resistant about starting. Sometimes I feel
                    really tired.
                    Bill: Do you have any thoughts about the
                    reviews?
                    Ted: Yeah. Like I said, I start thinking that they’re   There are many
                    a crock and a waste of time. I know I’ll have to   choice points in
                    do them. I’d just rather do them later.  therapy.
                                                             Rather than deal with
                                                             reviews as a “crock,” I
                                                             checked on later think-
                                                             ing. However, follow-
                                                             ing up his views of the
                                                             reviews is also valid.
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