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                                       Summarizing
        The goal of summarizing is to give structure to the conversation by ordering the main
        points. A distinction is made between the summarizing of contents and the summarizing
        of emotions. With the first the accent lies on the contents (cognitive) aspects of the story,
        whereas with the second it is more with the aspects of feeling. Usually summaries contain
        both and the relationship between them is  made.  The  basic  difference  between
        summarizing  contents  and  paraphrasing/reflection of feelings is that the summarizing
        covers a longer time span in the conversation.
           Your selectivity and your own ability to select play a larger part in this skill compared
        to the previous skills described. Because of the large quantity of information that has to
        be used for this, it is likely that you may forget certain aspects  or  not  express  them
        correctly. That is why it is vital that the summary is made in a questioning tone. Your
        voice should go up at the end, to indicate this correctly. In a statement your voice goes
        down at the end. The questioning tone gives speakers the chance to say whether they
        agree with the summary. To conclude, summarizing has the following functions:
        • You can check whether you have understood the speaker correctly.
        • You can order the different subthemes and vocalize them.
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