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development…  and  hence  increased  productivity  and
                             creativity.

                             c) The more difficult it is, the more it is worth to get to

                             finally learn this ability… otherwise you can be alone for
                             the rest of your life.

                         5. Chunk Down


                         The descent to a more detailed level. Find one element of

                       belief which will undermine it.

                             a) The fact that different pronunciation is a problem for

                             someone  does  not  mean  that  you  will  also  experience
                             this.

                             b)  I  am  totally  convinced  that  the  techniques  of
                             establishing good contact with clients can be very useful

                             and profitable for us.

                             c)  Exactly  which  element  of  meeting  new  people  is
                             specifically difficult for you?


                         6. Chunk Up

                         Getting on a more general level. Generalize a belief, so you

                       can see it from a different perspective.


                             a) Learning a new language always takes some time, but
                             then you know it forever.

                             b) By saying this, do you mean to tell me that effective
                             communication  with  clients  is  not  appropriate  for  our

                             company?

                             c)  Remember  that  relationships  with  other  people  give
                             true meaning and depth to our lives.

                         7. Counterexample


                         Find a concrete example which will undermine a belief.


                             a) For me, learning how to speak Spanish was extremely
                             easy and fun.
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