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something, something is difficult or too hard, something is

impossible, etc.

To have the ability of using these patterns more fluently, you

should practice a lot. That’s why it’s best to choose two

patterns per day and practice only those two. After some time,
you should have really improved the ability to sense the

context. That’s when matching a pattern into a situation will

come naturally. Your intuition itself will be giving you

relevant things to say.

These patterns can be used practically everywhere: in
negotiations, in a conversation with a client, in conversations

with your partner, dispelling doubts in other people,

motivating your loved ones, helping people to solve their

problems. There are as many applications as topics of

conversation.

Each day, select one or two patterns and practice. Pay

attention to what happens when you use each of these patterns

in a particular context.

Below, you can find another four beliefs, which can be

broken down using verbal dexterity. Try to work them out by
yourself:

- I can’t start my own business because it’s risky.

- Relationships usually end in suffering.

- Long walks are boring.

- Only lucky people succeed in life.

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