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b) It is inappropriate to endanger our company by using
                             outdated techniques which hardly work at all.

                             c)  Your  life  will  be  hard  when  you  find  that  you  have

                             nobody to turn to.

                         11. Change of Frame


                         Evaluate a belief by putting it in a different context.


                             a) If learning languages was so difficult, there wouldn’t
                             be  so  many  people  speaking  five  or  six  different
                             languages fluently, all language schools would be out of
                             business  and  people  would  probably  stop  traveling
                             anywhere on their own.


                             b)  We  should  think  how  using  NLP  techniques  in  our
                             company can change our course and raise our sales in a
                             five-year perspective.

                             c) If what you said was true, everyone would be lonely

                             and humans would have been extinct a long time ago.

                         12. Meta Frame


                         Formulate a belief about a belief.

                             a)  I  understand  that  you  must  know  a  lot  about  the

                             learning process of many different languages of the world
                             then?

                             b)  Could  it  maybe  be  that  NLP  is  not  appropriate
                             specifically for you, just because no one showed you how
                             to apply it effectively?


                             c) So I assume that means you tried to meet all the people
                             in the world already?

                         13. Model of the World


                         See  a  belief  looking  from  a  different  perspective,  from  a

                       point of view of a different model of the world.


                             a) You’re probably just saying this to justify the fact that
                             you haven’t taken any action to learn a foreign language.
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